Stay Single If You Don't Want To Serve Your Husband

Genesis 2:18, “And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” Titus 2:3-5, “The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.” 1st Timothy 5:14-15, “I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan.”

The world is filled with bad advice! I ran across the following ungodly opinion today, from a woman named Avivah Wittenberg-Cox. She is a career woman, with a feminist mindset. Her horrible advice for women, is to stay single if they cannot find a man to pander to their career ambitions and goals. This is the Devil talking in the following article...

If You Can’t Find a Spouse Who Supports Your Career, Stay Single

by Avivah Wittenberg-Cox | October 24, 2017

I was at a dinner with eight highly successful professional women recently, ranging in age from 35 to 74. Their stories were typical of research I have been conducting on dual-career couples. One had just been given a huge promotion opportunity in another country, but had struggled for several months to get her spouse to agree to join her. Another had decided that to save her marriage, she would take a yearlong sabbatical and go back to school, giving the family some balance and a breather from two high-powered jobs. A third had tried to work part-time for her law firm but quickly realized she was being professionally sidelined. She opted for a doctorate instead. Her husband continued his career.

This experience underlines the conclusion I’ve drawn from years of research and experience: Professionally ambitious women really only have two options when it comes to their personal partners — a super-supportive partner or no partner at all. Anything in between ends up being a morale-and career-sapping morass.

This is the reality of the half-baked transition we are in when it comes to women in the workplace. The 20th century saw the rise of women. The 21st century will see the adaptation (or not) of men to the consequences of that rise. The reality is that the transition is not smooth and the backlashes will be regular, but the benefits are potentially huge.

So far, a small minority of men and companies are at the forefront of the shift. As Melinda Gates recently wrote, we are still “sending our daughters into companies designed for our dads.” And into marriages billed as equal, as long as the man’s career isn’t disturbed by his wife’s success. (While I’ve occasionally heard stories of career-stifling spouses from same-sex couples, the vast majority I’ve heard are from heterosexual couples, and it’s almost always the woman whose career comes second.)

...Retaining women, at home and at work, takes skill and self-awareness. It takes attention and an intentional readjustment of yesterday’s rules to today’s realities. At work, it means adapting company cultures and systems. At home, it requires an equally strategic focus on enhancing both partners’ potential, with a long-term family vision across lengthening lives, tons of attentive listening, and regular flattery for the journey. Anything less is so yesterday.

SOURCE: If You Can't Find A Spouse That Supports Your Career, Stay Single! 

You are an absolute idiot if you take this wicked woman's advice! This stuff is laughable, really. And it is sad. Most of all, it is 100% unbiblical. Avivah uses terms like:

• a breather from two high-powered jobs
• professionally ambitious women
• women in the workplace
• wife's success
• the woman whose career comes second

What sad terms! Women ought not be in the secular or religious workplace. Women belong at home, married and bearing children, guiding the house as the Bible teaches (1st Timothy 5:14-15). Our nation is being destroyed today by career woman. Instead of being at home where God intended for them to be, they are pursuing careers, fighting in the military, advancing up the corporate ladder, childless and miserable at age 40. It is so tragic! Please read the preceding article, about how miserable career women are!!! Avivah has it all wrong, looking at things from a selfish point of view, totally bypassing God's purpose in making a woman, which is to be a HELP MEET for her man!

Avivah states: “The 20th century saw the rise of women. The 21st century will see the adaptation (or not) of men to the consequences of that rise.” Oh, we're going to see the consequences of their rise alright. Even so, it is already happening in America. Isaiah 3:12, “As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.” To the same degree that ungodly women are forfeiting motherhood, and pursuing corporate success instead, we are seeing the destruction of the traditional family. Lesbianism is on the rise. Abortion is commonplace. Broken homes are everywhere. Drug abuse is epidemic. Fewer people are willing to get married anymore. The situation has become so bad in these crazy modern times, that fornicating women are increasingly having their eggs frozen because they cannot find a stable relationship. Hello, it is called a “MARRIAGE”!!! 

Hebrews 13:4, “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” Courtship is non-existent these days. Social media, the music industry and Hollywood have trained America's youth to have sex on their first date (but then to stop using a condom if you really love someone). That is the Devil's advice! These people are living for the Devil. Any sex outside of a legally-binding marriage as very sinful. God will punish all fornicators and adulterers! America's epidemic pedophile problem today is merely a symptom of a sex-crazed society which lacks morality, restraint, Christianity and the fear of God. Satan is the god of this evil world (2nd Corinthians 4:3-4), which is why the Holy Bible has been removed and banned by Freemasons from America's classrooms since 1963. We get what we deserve America!

Avivah is a foolish woman, who does not believe the Bible. Anything with two heads is a monster! God has foreordained that the man (not the woman) is the head of the home. God created Eve from Adam's rib (the nearest thing to his heart). The ribs protect the heart and vital organs. A wife protects her husband's heart. God created Eve from Adam's rib to be loved; not from his head to rule with him; not from his feet to be trampled upon with cruelty and abuse. God created the woman FOR THE MAN (MP3 sermon clip by Pastor Jack Hyles), whether you feminists like it or not! 1st Timothy 5:15 says that career women are turned aside after Satan! God does not want Christian young women pursuing careers to make money. Let the heathen world pursue careers. It is high time that God's children stop following the world!

All across America today, Christian men like me cannot find a wife who wants to stay at home and be a homemaker, because of the evils of feminism in our churches. Look no further than Crown College, Bob Jones University and other apostate colleges today, who are now training young women to be nurses. The Bible colleges want your money! The girl's parents are worried about their daughter's financial stability in life, so in an attempt to protect their daughter they are dooming her to in many cases, to never find a husband, to never bear any children, and to miserably fail in multiple relationships with men, because of her independent mindset and lousy career. I've seen this firsthand in the Bob Jones camp. 

We've got a bunch of childless Christian career women today—nurses, teachers, coaches, administrators, secretaries, et cetera. We've got a bunch of Viola Walden clones today. I don't like to criticize Miss Viola Walden (1915-2007), but she was wrong to remain Dr. John R. Rice's (1895-1980) lifelong secretary and turn down marriage offers from men seeking a wife. I personally think that was very selfish of Dr. Rice. Brother Rice died in 1980, leaving an elderly 65 year old woman to be alone for the next 27 years of her life. I think that was selfish to do that to her! That is my humble opinion. Dr. Rice had a wife, let her be his secretary! I am 100% against a woman forfeiting marriage and motherhood for ANY reason!!! God created a woman for a man, her husband, and not to WORK a career as a secretary all her life!

If you want to be a “professionally ambitious woman,” then find a responsible Christian man who loves Jesus Christ, and marry him! Have a bunch of children, and raise them up as arrows to shoot against Satan. Psalms 127:4, “As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.” Today's children are the future! There is nothing in this world as powerful as a child in the loving hands of a godly mother who trains them. 

“I don't believe there are devils enough in hell to pull a boy out of the arms of a godly mother.” —Evangelist Billy Sunday

In this untoward, perverse and ungodly generation, women who chose marriage and motherhood are despised, belittled and bemoaned by liberals, as if it is their own funeral. There is no greater job, joy and justification for existence, than being a mother of your own biological children! Women who abort their baby are insane! That is my opinion. You must be out of your sane mind to murder a helpless, innocent, healthy little person in your womb! Not to mention that aborting a living child is heartless, cruel, irresponsible, selfish, ungodly and is premeditated murder!

Women don't belong in any workplace, other than their home! Search the internet and you cannot argue with me, unless you are a stiff-necked fool. I have known Christian men, whose wives ran off with another man at work. This could be avoided if women simply STAYED HOME where they belong! Let's the bills pile up, the extra money is not worth it! These leftist liberals and wacky Marxists—who relentlessly push for women's rights, demanding lower testing standards for females so women can join the Special Forces, lower physical testing standards for police officers so women can become cops, rise to corporate CEO positions, and run the country—are of the Devil. These manly type of assertive, rough, bossy and loudmouth women today are the disgrace of American society!!! 

Women are to keep quiet in the business of the church (1st Corinthians 14:34). These ungodly women today who are pastoring churches are of the Devil. 1st Timothy 2:11-12 says that women are to learn in silence, with all subjection, learning from their husbands at home, and never usurping authority over men. God does not tell the heathen world how to run their affairs, because they are heathens and don't respect God or His inspired Word. But if you fear God dear reader, then take heed to my teachings from the Word of God. Women belong in the home, married and having babies, being a help meet to her hubby, and no one else. 

A wife ought to wait on her husband hand and foot. I heard a woman scoff at that very idea once. She exclaimed: “I ain't waiting on no man hand and foot!” She had commit adultery with a married hockey player for the Chicago Black Hawks. I'm talking about a young lady who attended Hyles-Anderson College for a couple years. She quit because of an ungodly staff member at the college who berated and discouraged her. She started working in nightclubs in downtown Chicago, meeting wicked people. The hockey player used her, dumped her, causing her a nervous breakdown, because she loved him. I know his full name! That young woman got into astrology. Later illegal drugs. She died of a drug overdose at age 46, without ever having married, giving birth to a precious little girl out of wedlock, which was given away for adoption. Your attitude in life determines your altitude. Oh how sin thrills and then it kills! Oh how sin fascinates and then it assassinates! The Devil is a beautiful liar!

I know what I am talking about folks. Marriage is not just the old-fashioned way, it is the right way, God's way. The Lord knew what He was doing when He authored the Holy Bible. This wicked world is utterly confused today, because they reject the light of God's Word. That light is THE TRUTH, which will set any person free if you let it (John 8:32-36). Pastor Jack Hyles dedicated the remaining years of his life to preaching:

• THE BOOK (the inspired King James Bible)
• THE BLOOD (Jesus' literal blood sprinkled on the heavenly Mercy Seat)
• THE BODY (the importance of having local New Testament churches)

None of the things I just shared with you would have happened to that young lady, had she just stayed grounded in a local Bible-believing, soulwinning, New Testament church! I cannot emphasize enough the importance of finding and getting involved in a local Bible-believing church. There are no perfect churches! You get your family in there and STAY!!!

I have read thousands of dating profiles on e-Harmony since 2017, searching for a Christian woman to marry. A large percentage of the women look like a collection for the mob—whores, police mugshots, bimbos, no smile, goofy gals, barn yard ugly...yikes! I have not found even one profile where the woman says she wants to be a servant—a help meet—to please her husband in every way. The Bible says that Sarah called Abraham “lord.” Ladies, do you realize that God wants you, as a wife, to completely surrender to your husband, to the same degree that you would Jesus? Ephesians 5:22, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.”

Be careful what advice you take from sinners dear friend. Psalm 1:1, “Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.” Proverb 1:10, “My son, if sinners entice thee, consent thou not.” American women today are angry, empowered and rebellious. The Bible teaches Christian women to be modest ladies, chaste, meek, shamefaced, silent in doctrinal matters at church, obedient to her own husband, mothers, and keepers at home. And never, ever, let the word “divorce” be mentioned in your marriage, for it is sacred. When asked about his wife divorcing him, the famous preacher John Wesley (1703-1791) responded:

“I did not dismiss her. I did not abandon her. I will not recall her!” —John Wesley