Matthew 15:7-8, “Ye hypocrites, well did Esaias prophesy of you, saying, This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with their lips; but their heart is far from me.”
Sadly, ninety-nine percent of people who attend churches today are as phony as can be. They merely go to be part of a social club, fun center or to feel a sense of belonging. They are living a religious lifestyle for their own personal satisfaction. There is no sincere desire to truly obey, serve or please God.
Such is the case of a religious woman who enjoys going to church. She enjoys singing the old hymns. She enjoys the whole church thing. Yet, in her personal life she disobeys her husband at home. In fact, she loves her religious lifestyle so much that she divorced her husband because he refused to go to church with her. It didn't matter to the man's wife that he is suffering in horrible bodily pain all the time and needs to be at home. All that mattered to his defiant wife was what she wanted, with no regard for her husband. She is selfish.
I fully agree with Pastor Curtis Hutson (1934-1995) that if a husband tells his wife to stay home from church, she should obey and stay home. The feminist idea that a wife can just do whatever she wants, without her husband's permission, is of the Devil. A wife who abandons and divorces her husband simply doesn't love him and never did. A godly husband or wife would rather die than file for divorce! I know that is not a popular idea, but Jesus said in Matthew 19:8b, “Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.” God hates the sin of divorce!
I know a religious woman who left her Christian husband. She just moved out one day and moved to another city six hours away, without saying a single word to her legal husband. He only found out where she was a month later, when he read their credit union statement. She didn't even bother to tell her husband that she was moving across the state. Can you image? That is wicked rebellion ladies!
When her husband scolded her verbally for not asking for his permission to leave home, let alone to move to another city six hours away without saying a word to him, she wickedly replied: “I DON'T NEED YOUR PERMISSION!” Woe unto that ungodly wife when she stands before God in the afterlife to give account. Romans 14:12, “So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.” When her betrayed husband warned his rebellious wife that she would have to answer to God, she wickedly exclaimed: “That's fine!” What a sinful and ungodly attitude for a wife to have toward her own husband. What saith the Scripture? Ephesians 5:23, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.”
Wow, did you get that? A wife is commanded by God to submit (obey) to her own husband AS UNTO THE LORD. How many American women believe and obey this Scriptural truth today? Not many I can assure you dear reader, not many at all. Most women have been corrupted by the evil influence of feminist ideologies. Satan is the author of all rebellion! 1st Samuel 15:23, “For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king.” A defiant wife who disobeys her husband, and makes his life a living hell on earth, is in the same boat as a witch. I didn't say that, God our Creator did.
Kindly said, there are many professed Christian women who are far more religious than Christian in their behavior and words. Our talk talks and our walk talks, but our walk talks louder than our talk talks. Many Christian women today are so enamored with living a religious lifestyle that they sacrifice their marriage on the altar of selfish pride.
Ladies, your marriage is 10,000 times more important than attending a local church. The pastor is not your hubby! Shame on any ungodly wife who elevates her pastor's word and opinion above that of her own lawfully wedded husband. Your pastor has ZERO authority over you dear woman; your husband has 100% authority over you.
When you sass your husband and make demands of him to obey you, or else you will leave and divorce him, you are directly rebelling against God. Rebellious wives who abandon their husband and cause him much grief can expect to receive NO REWARDS in Heaven. The LORD does not reward quitters! Proverbs 31:12, “She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.”
And if you are the type of rebellious person that is already thinking: “Well what about my husband?” or “What about abusive husbands?,” you are a big part of the problem in this broken society in America. I am so sick and tired of the ungodly naysayers who feel compelled to contest and counter everything that the Bible preacher says.
That being said, I would never defend any form of abuse. In my humble opinion, rebellious wives are ten times more of a problem in homes today than abusive husbands. Many husbands only get angry when their wife disobeys him. And here's something that will ruffle your feathers—God's command for wives to obey their husband is not conditional upon her husband being fair and nice toward her. Unless it is something illegal, immoral or unsafe, a wife is expected by God to submit to her husband. That is biblical truth.
I learned a long time ago that there is a vast difference between living a religious life versus being a good Christian. The way that we treat others matters. You need to understand dear reader that you are not a good Christian just because you attend a local church. You are not a good Christian just because you sing hymns on Sunday. How you treat your spouse reveals how good of a Christian you are. No wife who files for divorce is right with God. I say that kindly with Christ's love, not to be mean, but truthful. Thank you for reading my ministry blog.






