Saturday, July 10, 2021

The Damaging Consequences Of The Sinful Hookup Culture

Hebrews 13:4, “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” Colossians 3:5-7, Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry: For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience: In the which ye also walked some time, when ye lived in them.

I love people, because as a child of God I have God's unconditional love shed abroad in my soul by the indwelling Holy Spirit of God. I love you dear reader, whoever you may be. The following disturbing information appeared in a February 2013 article published by the American Psychological Association (APA) titled, 'Sexual Hook-up Culture':

Hook-up regret

A number of studies have looked at regret with respect to hookups and have documented the negative feelings men and women may feel after casual sex. In a large Web-based study of 1,468 undergraduate students, participants reported a variety of consequences: 27.1 percent felt embarrassed, 24.7 percent reported emotional difficulties, 20.8 percent experienced loss of respect, and 10 percent reported difficulties with a steady partner (Lewis et al., 2011). In another recent study conducted on a sample of 200 undergraduate students in Canada, 78 percent of women and 72 percent of men who had uncommitted sex (including vaginal, anal, and/or oral sex) reported a history of experiencing regret following such an encounter (Fisher et al., 2012).

...By definition, sexual hookups provide the allure of sex without strings attached. Despite their increasing social acceptability, however, developing research suggests that sexual hookups may leave more strings attached than many participants might first assume.

SOURCE: Sexual Hook-up Culture

The Devil is a beautiful liar! The Devil always pays with counterfeit money. Sin will always cost you more than you wanted to pay, take you farther than you intended to go, and keep you longer than you planned to stay. I know personally of dozens of young Christian women who fornicated before getting legally married. I cannot think of even one case in which the young male married the girl he took advantage of. NOT ONE! Young ladies, the only way to protect yourself and prevent becoming a victim is to get legally married before you have carnal relations. It is as simple as that. A promise by your boyfriend to marry you means nothing. Males will say anything to steal your innocence. I assure you they will hit it and quit it!

When The Beatles' John Lennon learned that his girlfriend was pregnant, he immediately married her legally. I respect that. That was how it was back then. Men knew when to step up to plate and be a man. It was wrong to fornicate, but John did the right thing in the end. I can respect that. But when a man beds a young woman, and then ditches her, he belongs in prison! If I had my way, any male who slept with a woman would by law be married to her. No exceptions! I love it that in the Philippines there are no divorce courts! Once married, always married. That is how God intended it to be (Matthew 19:8). Marriage is at an all-time low in America today because of our sinful hook-up culture. The Satanic controlled media has promoted this type of immoral behavior. The Devil knows that the best way to destroy a person's life is to ensnare them at the earliest age possible into a deathstyle of immorality.

America today is infamous worldwide for our culture of fornication (aka, our HOOKUP culture). One of my favorite YouTube channels is 'The Better Bachelor' by a man who goes by the nickname “Joker.” Unfortunately, Joker is an unsaved immoral man who openly promotes whoremongering. I love his YouTube channel because he is 99% correct about women's horrible attitudes toward marriage and men. Yet, I cannot agree with his whoremongering around the world. Joker speaks of having casual intimate relationships with women in Asia and elsewhere. In his mind it is acceptable, just so long as two people agree to the terms of their relationship upfront. That is the same dark morality of Anton LaVey, founder of the Church of Satan. That is the same wicked philosophy of Satanist Aleister Crowley: “DO AS THIOU WILT SHALL BE THE WHOLE OF THE LAW.

Much of what Joker says is true and I like watching his videos. He has 304,000 subscribers, about 10% of whom are women. I like Joker's videos and can relate to his bachelor's lifestyle. However, I must refute 'The Better Bachelor' on YouTube publicly, because he is propagating the very sinful idea that it is okay to live as a whore or whoremonger, just so long as you are upfront with others. Nothing could be further from the truth. Hebrews 13:4, “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” Being a bachelor is perfectly acceptable, but to continue to have sexual relations with people outside of a binding marriage commitment is a very sinful lifestyle which brings the judgment of God (Colossians 3:5-6; Romans 1:24-32).

Please understand that I am not condemning anyone. I am the biggest sinner I know, because I live with myself. You are a horrible sinner too, whether you realize it or not. The closer to God you draw, the worse of a sinner you will feel like, as you see God in His holiness through abiding in the Holy Scriptures and the presence of the indwelling Holy Spirit.

Single Parent Living Arrangements Are A Curse Upon Society

In a disturbing ABC News article titled, 'Single Moms Struggle To Find Mr. Right,' we learn that there are 10,400,000 single women in the United States; 44% are divorced or separated; 33% have never been married; 22% are married. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 75% of the violent U.S. prison population came from a single parent household. So why does Hollywood and the music industry continue to propagate and glorify single motherhood? Why does the mainstream media keep glamorize single motherhood when they know it is harming society? The left has so much blood on their hands it is insane!

Good job all you irresponsible hook-up females and males!!! This is the consequence of Satanic social engineering. God didn't intend for you to have children out of wedlock. Raising children is a big responsibility which God intended two people to share, not a single parent. All you females having children out of wedlock made your own sin and did this to yourself! I am not blaming women more than men, both are equally guilty. Hugh Hefner pioneered the Satanic Playboy philosophy (since 1953) that has utterly destroyed America's marriages and families, for generations to come. I wouldn't want to be in Hugh Hefner's fate in Hell. That is so sad and tragic. God has no pleasure in the death of the wicked. Our great God grieves when a wicked person dies and perishes into Hell. That shows the great loving heart of our God.

Abortion Is First Degree Murder!

Dear friend, God made you! God made your body from the dust of the earth in your mother's womb, and then gave a living spirit to your lifeless body. Jeremiah 1:5, “Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations. God forms babies in the belly! Ungodly abortion doctors are first-degree murderers!!! They are killing a life that God is in the process of forming. That is what we just read about the prophet Jeremiah. God formed Jeremiah in his mother's womb, and knew him before he was even conceived. Abortion is murder!!! 

God is not happy when a living being that He made, and knew from even before conception, chooses to reject God's free gift. God is faithful dear friend. 2nd Timothy 2:12-13, “If we suffer, we shall also reign with him: if we deny him, he also will deny us: If we believe not, yet he abideth faithful: he cannot deny himself.” If you go to Hell someday, you will have no one to blame except yourself. God wants you to be saved and go to Heaven. 2nd Peter 3:9, “The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. If you ever hear a preacher teach that God hates homosexuals, they are lying. 

God loves everyone, otherwise He would have to hate everyone. To say that God hates someone is a sinful profession of self-righteousness! Since you feel that you're more pleasing to God than another person whom you perceive as being a worse sinner, you feel more superior and entitled to God's love. My friend, the only thing that makes you or me as believers any more pleasing to God than the vilest criminal on earth, is the precious blood of Jesus that He shed on the cross to pay for our sins. My righteousness is only Jesus!!! That is why I love everyone, including defiant homosexuals, because I am not worthy of God's love. If God's love for me were determined by anything I could ever say or do, then how shallow would that be. The Bible says CHRIST DIED FOR THE UNGODLY (Romans 5:6-9).

Like Lucifer, We Have I Problems

I kindly wrote this blog to preach against the Devil's hook-up culture, which is plaguing America today. As I showed you earlier, 33% of single Mom's with children have never been married. Another 44% of single women are divorced. That is shocking. Proverb 13:10, “Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.” The Bible says that ONLY BY PRIDE comes the contention that causes divorce. We have a sinful pride problem in the United States!!! We simply cannot get along in our homes. Have you ever heard that Satan has “i” problems? That is correct. ...

Isaiah 14:14, “I will ascend above the heights of the clouds; I will be like the most High.

Lucifer had some serious issues with himself, “i” problems. That is our big problem too, when our ego gets in the way of making restitution, and we insist that our demands be met, or else we'll take some negative action. These type of threats, ultimatums, and a victim's attitude are telltale signs that a marriage is about to fail. Someone's got to give in, humble them self, and be willing to make peace. It takes two to tango! A spouse may leave anyway, no matter how nice you are or reasonable. 

The hook-up culture should be illegal. Since children are the one's who always end up the victims of a single parent living arrangement, the immoral behavior of irresponsible youth must be dealt with by the government. The government could easily teach courtship in public schools. In fact, they should be preparing young people to become mothers and fathers, with the goal of marriage once they finish high school. The government could do much to properly teach youth. But ungodly lawyers prevent good things from happening. 

Someone always wants to sue and stop anything Christian, good, right or moral from existing in public schools. In any attempt to protect children from God, they have handed them over to the Devil for destruction. We could have a such a wonderful and happy society today, if lawyers and the high U.S. Supreme Court weren't doing everything in their power to prevent it from happening. Tell me that's not the Devil. Sure it is.

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