Are You A Godly Wife Or A Spoiled Brat?

Ephesians 5:22, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.”

The inspired Word of God teaches that a wife is to submit (obey) her own husband as if he were Jesus Christ. How many women today ascribe to this belief? I dare say 1 in 10,000. In the Old Testament, King Solomon said that out of 1,000 women (likely his 700 wives and 300 concubines), he could not find even one woman that feared God. Ecclesiastes 7:28, “Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.”

It doesn't surprise me that Solomon couldn't find a female among his haram that feared God, because his worldly type of lifestyle attracted worldly women. I just heard in the news that Sylvester Stallone's third wife has also filed for divorce after 25 years of marriage. She wants his money and she's going to get it! The poor guy married a heathen woman.

Likewise, Actor Robin Williams (1951-2014) commit suicide in 2014. His first two wives divorced him, parasiting off his wealth, using the ungodly courts to forcefully take away hundreds of millions of dollars that he had worked hard to earn. Like Stallone, Robin married heathen women. If Solomon's wives could have gotten away with it, no doubt they would have cleaned him out, taking all his wealth with them. When the Lord Jesus Christ taught His disciples about marriage, adultery, divorce and remarriage, they were horrified and concluded that it's best not to get married. Matthew 19:10, “His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.” They went MGTOW!

In any marriage, you are uniting two sinners. There will be problems, tension and anger at times, with very rare exceptions. I once heard a Christian man testify that in 10 years of marriage he and his wife had never exchanged any negative words nor fought. Either he is a bad liar, or else one or both of them kept their hurt feelings to themselves, because what he said is very strange and abnormal.

I know a Christian couple who are having marital troubles. The wife became angry at her husband. She is lazy and refuses to pick up after herself. She lets food in the refrigerator rot, which has to be tossed into the garbage. I'm talking green moldy hotdogs! She is a bad wife! She is spoiled rotten! In her anger one day she abandoned her husband to run to a local shelter, which she has often done in the past. She falsely accuses him of being abusive, but the truth is that she doesn't like being corrected for not being responsible as an adult. She had worked outside the home in previous years, but was fired from both jobs for LAZINESS! Whereas she is an abusive wife, she gaslights her poor husband, blaming him instead.

That wicked wife after one week in the shelter started her own new bank account, so she could keep her own money away from her husband. She didn't ask her husband for permission to do that. She applied for a job. She didn't ask for her husband's permission to do that either. She started looking for a local apartment to live in. What's that poor husband to do? When her despondent husband (a nervous wreck by now) kindly reminded her that she is his lawful wife, and biblically he has authority over her, she angrily said: “I don't need your permission!” What saith the Scripture? Ephesians 5:22, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.” Oh, what a foolish woman! She has a sinful loser's attitude. ...

Proverbs 14:1-3, “Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. He that walketh in his uprightness feareth the LORD: but he that is perverse in his ways despiseth him. In the mouth of the foolish is a rod of pride: but the lips of the wise shall preserve them.”

I believe these three Bible verses go together. A wife who disobeys and works against her husband does not fear the LORD. She is rebellious! She is a bad wife! She is a spoiled brat! Proverbs 14:3a, “In the mouth of the foolish is a rod of pride...” Any wicked wife who starts her own bank account, applies for a job and secures an apartment without her husband's permission is blaspheming the inspired Word of God. Titus 2:4-5, “That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.” Did you read that... KEEPERS AT HOME! Did you read that... GOOD! Did you read that... OBEDIENT TO THEIR OWN HUSBANDS!

In deteriorated United States today women have become angry, rebellious and empowered by the ungodly courts. It is almost impossible today for a single guy to find a Christian wife who truly walks in the Spirit, so that “The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil” (Proverbs 31:11). If you get married nowadays, there is a high risk that in time your wicked wife will make you a victim through the courts—and you will regret that you ever decided to get married. All a poor single guy can do is pray for God to give him wisdom how to choose a loyal wife, but even then people often change for the worse.

The old adage is very true: What you see is what you get! If the person you are considering marrying has some red flags, multiply those bad character traits by TEN after you're married. You can trust me on this advice! Never even date someone who has a hot temper. Never date a flirt. Never date someone who consumes booze or illegal drugs. Since you always marry somebody that you know, you should NEVER date someone whom you wouldn't marry. That's some of the best practical advice you'll ever hear my friend.

Yes, dear wife, whomever you may be, God does require for you to obtain your husband's permission to make major life's decisions. And I'll go a step further, which may harelip some of you feminists, your lawful husband does have a biblical right to control who your friends are, if he allows you to have friends at all. If you disagree with that, then you do NOT have a biblical mindset toward marriage. Your husband does have a right to insist that you don't talk to your meddling mother. Meddling mother-in-laws are notorious for ruining marriages!

Your husband has every God-given biblical right to ask where you are going, what you will be doing, who you will be meeting, and when you will be returning, and he has the authority to insist that you stay home instead. If you have a problem with that, then you are a rebel. Proverbs 14:2, “He that walketh in his uprightness feareth the LORD: but he that is perverse in his ways despiseth him.” Woe unto the rebellious wife who continually causes her husband grief of soul, inexplicable emotional pain, financial loss and misery. The only thing worse than not being married is being married and not wanting to be married. It's much better to wait long than marry wrong! We are living in a generation that does not look up to God. Proverbs 30:13, “There is a generation, O how lofty are their eyes! and their eyelids are lifted up.”

I realize that less than 1% of my blog readers will likely agree with the truths I have taught in this article, but this is 100% biblical. No one can escape life's responsibilities. When you don't pull your weight at work, you get fired. When a lazy wife doesn't pull her weight at home, her husband cannot fire her. All the poor fella can do is verbally correct her. But if she has some spiritual and/or mental issues that compel her to get upset, go lunatic and with blood-curdling screaming explode in anger toward her husband (while he's nowhere near her), she is wrong. Woe unto the foolish woman who punishes her husband by using her vocal cords to scream as a weapon against him, for no other reason than she doesn't want to be scolded for her laziness. That dear reader is what you call a “spoiled brat”!

I feel so sorry for the fella I shared with you in this blog. He's a good and responsible guy with a caring heart, but he married a lazy woman with an unscriptural attitude toward her husband's authority. She does what she wants, how she wants, when she wants, and he dare not try to tell her different, lest she make his life a living hell on earth. Woe unto that ungodly wife when she answers to God sin eternity at the Judgment Seat of Christ. A godly wife obeys her man, period. Pastor Curtis Hutson (1934-1995) is absolutely right, who said that if your husband tells you to stay home from church with him, YOU STAY HOME and don't complain!

By the way, females wearing pants, Spandex, miniskirts and other immodest clothing has nothing to do with a wife's heart toward her husband. I know Christian women who wear pants, but are obedient toward their husband. And I know Christian women who would never wear anything but long dresses who are rebellious brats, a constant burden to their husband. One thing has nothing to do with the other. You cannot always judge a book by its cover.

We need a revival in the United States of wifely submission to husbands. And if you're a feminist-minded female who's right now thinking: “Well what about my husband?,” you're the rebellious brat to whom I am preaching the inspired Holy Bible. GET RIGHT WITH GOD!!!